Chris (71, single, gay man) remarked, If I got to the point where my life was not
Similarly, Bill (66, separated, gay man) remarks:
Many participants also reported intentions to age in place and stay in their home as long as possible, not unlike heterosexual individuals (Bell & Menec, 2015; Cicero & Pynoos, 2016). However, their motivations for doing so were distinct, often due to fears of homophobia and heightened financial concerns. Married and partnered participants were more likely to indicate a desire to age in place, as it was understood that partners would help provide care. For example, Barbara (66, married, lesbian) noted that partners often provide care, but that the health and age of a partner are crucial in allowing one to age in place. However, due to a general tendency to be childfree, participants noted that friends, a partner, or a hospice care service would also help them age in their home. Roger (70, married, gay man) noted that we have to rely on each other, whether that be spouses or family of choice. It was well understood-even sometimes in the absence of conversation about it-that chosen family will provide care in one’s home. Read more
