Just as if a guy wrote “I’m done with dating immature women, where have all the good women gone!
I met my wife through work and prior to her I was dating a woman I met at a friends BBQ
These women are lamenting the lack of ‘good’ men.And you use it as an example of these women’s ‘baggage levels’. And that one should steer clear etc.
Yes, I would steer clear. ?”, I’d expect a good few women would avoid him too based on his attitude, I wouldn’t say they necessarily have baggage though, but he likely has some hang-ups 🙂
Maybe there are people there who’ll start chatting to others no matter what they type about themselves and their preferences, and choice of profile photos – all the merrier if so!
The problem with online dating is that there’s significant emotional bun out by playing the numbers game. It’s hard to not get jaded by trying to game the system – and this is where all the baggage comes from from both genders, I’ll wager. When people learn that success comes from treating each online profile – and person behind it – as expendable in your quest for online success by playing the numbers – something dies you in you risk ending up with baggage.
There’s a lot of broken people out there, and all they need to do is meet someone who smashes their stereotypes and makes them believe in love again. That’s a tough ask, and requires that one rare and special person to do. Read more
